The Best and Worst Wedding Favors: What to Give and What to Skip

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Wedding favors may seem like a small detail, but they’re one of those final touches that leave a lasting impression on your guests. The right favor is a thoughtful way to say thank you, while the wrong one often gets left behind or tossed out.

At The Bailey Experience, we believe every aspect of your wedding should be intentional—including what you send home with your guests. If you’re debating whether to include favors and what to give, here’s a guide to the best and worst options.

Why Wedding Favors Matter

Favors aren’t just about tradition; they’re a small but meaningful way to show appreciation. A well-chosen favor can remind guests of your special day long after the wedding is over. That said, not every favor is worth the investment. Some are practical and well-loved, while others just end up collecting dust.

The Best Wedding Favors Guests Will Actually Appreciate

1. Edible Treats
Food and drinks will always be a win. Whether it’s beautifully packaged macarons, gourmet chocolates, or mini bottles of wine, edible favors are something guests actually enjoy—and they won’t clutter up their homes.

2. Personalized Keepsakes
Small, high-quality items like elegant coasters, engraved keychains, or ornaments can be great choices. The key is to personalize them in a way that makes them useful. Instead of putting your wedding date on everything, consider adding guests’ names or initials to make it feel more special.

3. Scented Candles
A candle in a sophisticated scent is something almost everyone will appreciate. Every time they light it, they’ll be reminded of your wedding. Bonus points if you choose a fragrance that connects to your wedding destination or theme.

4. Mini Photo Frames
A stylish photo frame is a favor with purpose. You can even use them as place cards at the reception, giving guests a practical keepsake to take home.

5. Charitable Donations
If you prefer something more meaningful, consider donating to a cause that matters to you and your partner. Instead of physical gifts, let guests know a donation has been made in their honor. It’s a thoughtful gesture that makes an impact.


The Wedding Favors You Should Skip

1. Succulents
These might seem trendy, but they’re more trouble than they’re worth. If they tip over, they leave a mess of dirt, and not everyone wants to take home a plant. Many guests will end up leaving them behind.

2. Overly Personalized Items
Shot glasses, tote bags, and wine glasses with your wedding date might seem like a fun idea, but most guests won’t find much use for them. Unless it’s something functional, favors with your names and wedding details often end up forgotten.

3. Cheap Trinkets
Small bottle openers, keychains, and magnets usually feel more like clutter than a thoughtful gift. If it’s not something guests would use in their daily lives, it’s better to skip it.

4. DIY or High-Maintenance Favors
Favors that require guests to do something—like plant a seed packet—rarely make an impact. While the idea is sweet, most people won’t actually follow through. If your guests have to assemble, grow, or care for it, they probably won’t.

5. Breakable or Bulky Items
Anything fragile or difficult to pack is a no-go, especially for guests who traveled to be there. If they can’t easily take it home, it’s likely to get left behind.


Final Thoughts on Wedding Favors

The best favors feel intentional, not like an afterthought. When choosing what to give, ask yourself:

  • Will my guests actually use this?
  • Is it meaningful or practical?
  • Does it fit the experience I want to create?

At The Bailey Experience, we focus on making weddings effortless, elegant, and personal. From the biggest decisions to the smallest details, we ensure everything comes together beautifully. If you need guidance on wedding favors—or anything else—let’s chat.

Thinking about skipping favors altogether? That’s okay too. A well-planned wedding experience is the best gift your guests could receive.

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